I love this sketch, and I’m not sure how I missed it for as long as I did. It’s hilarious.

Still, it sums up pretty well what a lot of people think about counseling. That it’s little more than finding out what people are doing wrong and telling them to cut it out.

Worse yet, some people think this is what counseling should look like.

“Will you just tell my husband/wife to pull it together?”

“What they did was wrong! You’re going to tell them that, right?”

These presume people don’t usually already know when they’re wrong and, if not, that there is immediate value in telling them so.

No time or inclination to get up on a soapbox about this today — the point was to post this funny video for anyone who hasn’t seen it.

Suffice to say, that’s not what counseling looks like — at least not when it’s done well!

4 Reasons You Should Sign Up for my Email List Today


If you’re interested in my writing, you need to sign up for my email list. You may have heard this before and thought, “Why get more stuff in my Inbox? I’ll just go to the site once in a while.” Here are four good reasons you should sign up for my email list right now.

1. You won’t need to think about going to the site. My posts come to you. You can always hit the delete key if a post comes that you don’t care to read, but this way you lay your eyes on the headline of every post. Which means…

2. You won’t miss something valuable. If you’ve read much of my work, you know I write — almost exclusively — about stuff that matters. Big time. I write about self-improvement, the search for God, improving relationships, and other big topics. I write provocative things, things that make people think, things that if you take them seriously, it’ll change your life big time. Check around the web — my voice is pretty unique. You won’t get these views most other places. When my posts come to your Inbox, you’ll get to quickly and easily see what every post is about and decide whether or not it’s for you. The ones you miss when you’re not signed up could have been the ones that could have changed your attitude, your relationships, or maybe even your life.

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Wow — Blog exploded!

Okay — yesterday I announced on this site that I had installed a new theme on my blog, and yesterday my blog got 400 page views. That’s almost double what an average post gets. And 39 of those views came from Twitter, so thanks especially to my tweeps who stopped by the site to check it out.

Michael Hyatt‘s Get Noticed theme is fantastic if you’re serious about blogging, but still requires a lot of time and energy to set up, especially if you are like me — a blogging mortal who does it all alone!

Thanks again for stopping by. I hope more of you will do so today, and even sign up to get my posts in your Inbox.

Pardon My Dust — Changing Theme on Website

I apologize for the mess on the site right now. I am making some radical revisions to this place! These changes will allow me to communicate more clearly with you than ever. I won’t announce a “finished” time, you’ll just notice the site changing a lot over the next few months, with stuff being added, changed, subtracted, cleaned up, etc.

It will be messy sometimes, but I hope it won’t often be annoying! I am sorry for the inconvenience, and so appreciate your patience.

by David Flowers

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Sermon Podcast
May 18, 2014

In part 5 of the series Coming Attractions: A Look at the Amazing Things in Your Future, Dave talks about Home (John 14:1-7).